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勉強面での親の在り方

今まで小学生で、

なんで勉強をしなきゃいけないの?と聞いてきた子は少なかったのだが、近頃は色々な影響を受ける機会を得て、小学生にも聞かれるようになりました。

親に聞くことはあったとしても、他人の私に聞いてくるということはその答えを他者が感じている以上に求めているということ。

 

その子に対して最初に私が言うことは

 

勉強することに疑問を持ったことに単純に素晴らしいと思っているということ。

 

 

親にしなさいって言われたから。

ちゃんとした大人になりたいから。

など色々な理由が挙げられますよね。

 

その中で、

今、自分がやっていることが何になるのか?

と疑問を持つことは、その時点で自主的であり、自分の人生に自分で責任を持つということにつながっていると思います。

 

人というものは、間違って、後悔して、それで学んでいくものです。成功で得られる学びよりも失敗で得られる学びの方がはるかに大きいものです。

 

私自身も人生で一度、沈みました。

この沈むという表現は恐らく、沈んだことのある人にしかわかってもらえないんじゃないかなと思います。

そこから、這い上がってきて、今の自分があります。

 

そこで学ぶことがたくさんありました。

 

大事なことは失敗せずに成長してしまうことの怖さです。

失敗したらいいと思います。

失敗した人は本当に強い。

 

そこから這い上がった経験を持ち得ているからです。

 

例えば子どもが何かの失敗をしそうな状況だとします。

確かに親としては失敗しないようにと心がけるのですが、一生自分が子どもが失敗しないようにと見守れるわけではありません。

 

私は子どもに敢えて失敗をさせる。それを見守っていくのが親の務めだと思います。

失敗して、自分で後悔して、考えて。その過程が成長なのです。

失敗しないように努力するのは決して親ではありません。

子どもが自分ですることです。

 

親はその這い上がっていく姿をしっかりと見守り、時には、ほんの少しだけ手を差し伸べてみるのです。

 

失敗は、決して間違いではありません。

その失敗からどう学ぶのか。

それが一番大切なことなのです。

 

 

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